fix：加好友三次回调修改

haoban-manage3-service/src/main/java/com/gic/haoban/manage/service/service/out/impl/MemberUnionidRelatedApiServiceImpl.java

@@ -766,8 +766,8 @@ public class MemberUnionidRelatedApiServiceImpl implements MemberUnionidRelatedA
         dto.setAvatar(StringUtils.isBlank(dto.getAvatar()) ? midRelatedDto.getAvatar() : dto.getAvatar());
         dto.setMemberUnionidRelatedId(midRelatedDto.getMemberUnionidRelatedId());
 
-        if (StringUtils.isBlank(dto.getExternalUserid())) {
-            log.error("请检查自建是否回调两次(好办还未回调，检查客户联系回调、老好办助手回调、代开发回调)，wxEnterpriseId：{}", wxEnterpriseId);
+        if (StringUtils.isAnyBlank(dto.getExternalUserid(),dto.getSelfExternalUserid())) {
+            log.error("加好友异常、请检查配置是否正常(如：检查客户联系回调、老好办助手回调、代开发回调（是否配置多个回调、企微权限是否正常、密钥是否正确）、好办权限等)，wxEnterpriseId：{}", wxEnterpriseId);
             return null;
         }